Kidney Stone and It's a BOY!

Yeah I know, how do those two go in the same title you might ask. Well last week on Friday I had felt some cramping or soreness mainly on my left side.  I didn't think anything about it since I am pregnant and your body does weird things anyway so I just ignored it pretty much and took it easy.  The next day, Saturday, I was working the storage units at home and Jet was upstairs napping. James was out cleaning windows and out of nowhere I started to get a sharp pain in my left side where the cramping had been.  I thought, 'well that for sure is not normal'. So I tried to call James and texted him that I was heading to the instacare. I got Jet up from his nap,  packed him up and headed to the instacare about 5 min from my house.  I went in and they told me to go to the emergency room because my blood pressure was high and they didn't have imaging or ultrasound really to help me.  So I packed Jet up again and the pain was still there.  As I was driving myself to the emergency room, the pain was getting worse.  I was scared I wouldn't make it to the emergency room.  I made it there, got Jet in the stroller and they checked me in.  The nurse said it sounded like a kidney stone, so I guess that made me feel better.  After I had been checked in, Jet and I went to our room.  The pain got really bad.  I mean like, pain so bad you throw up, feel like you are going pass out, break out in a sweat type pain.  The nurses could hear my moaning and crying and gave me a couple of doses of morphine, and even then the pain was just bearable.  I made sure everyone knew that I was pregnant, like 3 times so the morphine was ok for baby. Anyway, I called James and told him to come over and soon he was there.  The nurses had already changed Jet's diaper twice, so that was nice to have someone else do that for a change. I felt bad for the kid having to watch me writhe around in pain, but he got a cookies and chocolate milk, so I don't think he minded.
          We went into the ultrasound room to try and see the kidney stone and check on baby.  Baby was doing great and I asked the nurse to see if baby was a boy or girl, just to brighten my day.  The tech found the parts and asked if we were familiar with them, and for sure it is a BOY! Even though I was kinda out of it, I was so happy.  It could not be more perfect if I had planned it myself.  Two boys, two years apart, both in October. I have everything ready for their first 20 months of life. I am soooo excited to see them grow up, play with each other, and become friends.  I really hope they are great friends; I will do my best to foster that friendship.
    So as far as the kidney stone, I went home after my emergency room visit and still had pain, bearable pain.  It got a little better for a few hours, then got worse towards 11pm at night.  I took some pain medication and was able to sleep for a while.  I woke up mother's day morning and the pain was gone! Best mother's day present ever! I went to church, just sacrament and felt a lot better, later that night the stone passed and I was done with it.  During the ultrasound the tech saw another kidney stone hanging out in my kidney and someday it might decide to make its descent, something to look forward to :(.
     For now I am just grateful to not have that pain of a kidney stone, but it reminded me of how things in October will be when boy #2 joins our family.  At least with that kind of pain it peaks and fades a little and you get a precious angel in the end.

 On May 11-12 Jet and I went on a Father and Sons campout.  At first I thought he was a little young for it. But I said
what the heck and knew that one way or the other would create a memorable experience.  While I was at work, Amanda packed the car with our tent, chair, stroller and other things.  We drove up Spanish Fork canyon to a place called Wanrhodes.  There was a great turnout and some ward members even brought their horses.  We started the evening with some great dinner. We had beef stew and cheesey potatoes. Then for dessert we had dutch oven peach cobler and ice cream.  After that we sat around the campfire and Jet got to pet a dog and go look at the horses. After that I thought I should start getting the tent set up.  I later found out that we were the only ones staying in a tent.  Other people mentioned sleeping under the stars and others brought travel trailers.  That was okay, I was up for the adventure.  The only problem was that there wasn't very many places nearby with flat ground.  I found a place that was 20 feet from the fire and 10 feet from the horses.  This later turned out to be a problem. After that, Jet got to roast his first marshmallow over the fire, although he wasn't as interested in roasting it as he was just eating it.  We did go down to a little river for a bit, but I soon thought he would get dirty and or wet, so I took him back up away from the creek.  I changed Jet's diaper in the tent and we started to make for bed.  Jet was a little bit scared I think at first, maybe a little claustrophobic I don't know. Then he didn't have too much trouble going to sleep. It was a little bit colder up there than I thought, so he slept in his jacket and other clothes.  I couldn't get to asleep, partly because I was on my back and the other part because people were talking around the fire for another couple hours, also someone had a lantern on and so there was plenty of light coming through the tent.  I didn't have it in me to ask people to be quiet or turn the light off, or go do it myself, so I just relaxed for a while in the tent.  I must have fallen asleep because next thing I knew I was waking up and it was only 1am.  I had to go the bathroom and it was really cold.  The other problem was that the air mattress was losing air.  So although I didn't want to, I knew it would be better if I went the bathroom and put more air in the mattress.  In doing so, I woke Jet up. At one point we did get the stars out and it was very beautiful.  At another point I remember bear hugging Jet and putting us both in two sleeping bags and trying to stay warm together.  Jet was really such a trooper.  He cried a little bit here and there, but overall I was so proud of him.  He was up for the adventure.  It really was a great bonding experience for us.  I just wish it had been 20 degrees warmer.  So the other problem was that I lost my glasses somewhere in the middle of the night....I had always said that if ever got too bad, we could just pack up and go home.  Well now I had to wait till morning light to find my glasses, because I wasn't going to leave without them.  But we were so cold.  There was litterally frost on the car and tent in the morning. Another part of me wanted to hold out until breakfast.  So we got some sleep here and there, and we waited for light at around 6am and I was like, I am freezing, I don't care about breakfast, I am out of here.  So I backed the car up to the tent and turned on the heater. I put Jet in the car while I was packing up.  I remember it was so cold, that I even warmed up in the car for a few minutes to have a break from packing up the car.  I found my glasses in the tent and then I stuffed everything in the back of the car. I was hungry and thought we'd get a small breakfast at McDonalds.  It was pretty fun, me and Jet on a adventure, 7am in the morning at McDonalds.  I bet we looked like an odd pair.  We got some breakfast and then I let Jet play in the play area for like 30 minutes, trying to buy some time, so that Amanda could sleep in some more before we came home. We came home and showed Mom all our pictures and then went back to bed.  It was a great trip with some hiccups.  I was happy to make some great memories with Jet and be a cool dad for him.  We'll have to do it again sometime!!!

Father and Son

Silly, loving, and goofy are probably the best words to describe how James and Jet play with each other. Lately I have been really enjoying those two interact with each other and seeing Jet bond with his Dad. Jet is definitely a daddy's boy. The other day I was folding James' clothes and Jet said , 'dada'. He knows his dad very well and gets so excited when he comes home. He runs up and gives him a big hug and kisses. I have to admit I think Dads are much cooler than mom, especially in this case. James always has the energy to toss him around, chase him, or wrestle with him. They have so much fun together playing catch, playing with the trains, or reading. Daddy makes everything more fun.
I was telling James the other day that even though he and I have different likes/dislikes or interests, Jet has given us something in common that is so wonderful and eternal. We both have a common love and find joy in our little boy.

Jet at 18 months

This week we had Jet's 18 month doctor's appointment and have some fun updates on how he is doing. We love being his parents, he is such a sweetheart. He is also pretty tough. When he got his vaccinations he cried while they were being done and for a minute after, but that was it. He is an amazing child! Here are some of his recent growth stats.


Weight: 24 lbs
Height: 32.75 inches
Head: 18.75 inches

He is right in the middle of the pack when it comes to all of his measurements. As the mom, I feel a sense of pride knowing that I have helped him grow and develop and be such a healthy kid. I hope it continues!

Some of the fun things Jet is doing:

getting into everything
pretending he doesn't know what 'no' means
talking (he can say: mama, dada, dog, duck, truck, grandpa, grandma, no, ball, basketball, book, apple, balloon, banana, elmo, and a few others I can't think of)
climbing on everything
plays basketball for half hour a day
runs
likes to dance or walk in circles
laughs at himself randomly
gives the best hugs and kisses
loves dogs and animals
eats just about everything mom and dad eat or give him
sleeps 10-12 hours a night and takes one nap (2 hours) during the day
points and tries to name things
has nearly all his teeth except the back molars (canines are coming in)
loves to be outside and go to the park
sucks his thumb and puts his other hand down his shirt when is tired, upset, or bored
throws everything!
eats with a fork
folds his arms for the prayer
he can spot a ball or balloon from a mile away literally
he LOVES balls, he has called several things balls such as the moon, the at&t symbol, google chrome symbol and pretty much anything circular, his favorite word is definitely 'ball'.


One of the funny things he has done recently is when he starts to play with the lamp on our headboard I always tell him 'no-no'. Now whenever he starts to play with the lamp he says 'no-no'. He probably thinks that is what I call a lamp.
He is a very loving child and I love his cute face. Jet is going to be the best big brother too! We love Jet so much, he has filled a spot in our hearts we didn't know we had!


This video is of Jet at the dog park in Oklahoma.

12 Weeks

Today I am 12 weeks along and that means that baby #2 is well on its way. Baby is due the middle of October, so that means Jet and baby will be almost exactly 2 years apart. I am so excited to meet another precious spirit straight from Heavenly Father, they truly are angels at least until they are teenagers right? I am more nervous about this second one than the first because I know how much work one is and now I will have a 2 year old and a newborn! I am sure I will be tired for the rest of my life basically. But I know that they won't stay that way very long and I see Jet becoming more independent each day and that makes it easier on mom. Anyway, I have felt different this pregnancy in that I have felt a lot more nauseated and have thrown up a couple of times. I read somewhere that if you are more sick than you were with a boy, then it is a girl but I still have no clue. I would like to have a girl, but I love little boys and think they could be great friends and playmates. If it is a boy then I already have what I need so that's nice. Hope it is smooth sailing all the way through. We feel so blessed to have another angel come to our family and I know Jet will be such a good brother.

Oklahoma Trip

During my mom's spring break about a week ago, Jet and I were able to go to Oklahoma for a little visit. Really my parents wanted to see Jet and if he could have flown there by himself he would have, but I had to come along :). It was such a fun visit, for us both. I was needing a change of scenery and I love being able to share my little boy with the rest of my family. They have so much fun with him. When we got there my parents wanted to take Jet to Chuck e Cheese and he had a blast. He loved any of the games that required throwing a ball. He was a little scared of Chuck e Cheese himself, but got up and danced with him and a entire group of little kids. The next day we went to the zoo. He loved the zoo too and the sea lion show. His favorite part was the petting zoo part where he hugged it out with the goats. We took a bike ride around the lake there and had dinner with the missionaries. He loved watching his uncle Freddy drive his RC car around the yard. He loved being able to go outside in the backyard and he also loved the dog Marley. We went to the regular park and the dog park while we were there and loved the dog park. I am so glad he is not afraid of animals or dogs. He has heard dog barks from inside the womb and sometimes I think he thinks he is a dog with the way he chased after and followed the dogs at the park. Sunday we went to church and he had a great time in nursery, and Monday we headed back to Utah. We are grateful for Grandma and Grandpa Richard for making the trip possible! It is so fun to watch my parents be grandparents, how much they love Jet and I get a glimpse of how they were when I was that young.

Scariness

Well our first trip to the emergency room as parents was a scary one. Hopefully someone out there will be better prepared after reading this. So a couple of weeks ago Jet was sick. He mainly just had a fever. I didn't think it was a huge deal so I decided to keep an eye on him and I gave him some acetaminophen. He was real lethargic and sleepy all day long. That evening I went to the grocery store to get some things and left Jet home with James. They were resting on our bed. James heard me come home and came down to help me bring the groceries up. When we came up the stairs, we looked over on our bed and Jet was convulsing. His body was tense and shaking. I ran over to him tried to snap him out of it by calling his name and he wouldn't look at me or respond. I said to James, 'we gotta go'. I scooped him up, ran down to the car and we raced to the instacare. The instacare was closed so we raced up to the emergency room in Provo. During the car ride, I was just praying to God that Jet would be ok. I was trying my hardest to stay calm, but I could not bear the thought of something terrible happening to my little boy. Before we had gotten in the car to get to the emergency room, his seizure had stopped, but he was unresponsive to me. He could not keep his eyes open and he was so limp. He breathing was off too. By the time we got to the emergency room, he had snapped out of his stupor and was awake. We checked in and the nurses and doctors told us he had had a febrile seizure. They said it is fairly common in young children and infants. It happens when a fever spikes and the nervous system has a 'short', the body reboots by having a seizure. It made me feel a little better knowing that, but it was still a scary thing. They basically gave us ibprofen for him and sent us home. They said it could happen again if he has a fever and there is nothing you can really do about it, just make him comfortable during the seizure and they usually want to sleep afterwards. If the seizure lasts more than 5 min, to take him to the emergency room. I am grateful to know that now, but I still don't want it to happen again. I love my little boy so much. In those scary moments, I would have done anything to help him. He has been doing so much better since.